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Rural homestays in Kwazulu Natal, South Africa

country:South Africa
location:KwaZulu Natal
departures:This trip can be tailor made throughout the year and can be adapted to suit your interests and requirements as necessary
price:From R400 - R600 (approx £26 - £40) per person per night. Price depends on if host stays, based on 2-4 people sharing. Price includes accommodation and food
vouchers:Gift vouchers can be used with this holiday
 
the amazing things you'll be doing
We are committed to building peace by creating inspiring opportunities for indigenous communities in Africa to share their lives with people from different cultures, in ways that generate employment, uphold personal and cultural dignity, and are mutually enriching.

Our rural homestays enable you to get a first-hand experience of rural African life as it is lived in South Africa today. Accompanied by a host who has extended family in a rural area, you will be integrated into family life and not treated like a visitor. This means you will participate in daily chores, outings, rituals and celebrations, providing you with the invaluable opportunity to immerse in African culture and to make firm and lasting friendships. With the help of your host, who will be the bridge facilitating your entry into a different culture, you will feel what it is like to be an 'insider' in South Africa.
day-by-day itinerary
There is no set itinerary for a homestay, as each stay is different.

There are, however, some more common activities that you will most probably participate in. These include the early morning tasks of fetching water, chopping or fetching wood, lighting a fire to boil the water for washing yourself, cooking breakfast (usually soft porridge) and eating breakfast with some of the family members. During the day you will spend time playing with the children, walking in the village, perhaps helping in the food garden or field, learning language, resting and helping to prepare the evening meal. Sometimes after supper, the children may prepare some traditional songs, rhymes and dances to present to you and to teach you. The rhythm of your day will follow the rhythms of nature as there may be no electricity.

You will also witness community celebrations if they occur during the time of your visit e.g. the circumcision ritual, when the young men who have been circumcised come out of isolation and their parents slaughter a cow to honour their coming of age. This will be an opportunity for you to talk with the young men about what this events means for them.

Funerals are also a major community event, starting with a vigil the night before the funeral (often lasting the whole night) and ending with a community meal. Here you will witness how the grave is prepared and how the coffin is interred so as to adhere to traditional cultural practices.

Special visits may include a trip to a game reserve or to historical sites e.g. the Memorial to the Battle of Blood River and other battlefields in KwaZulu-Natal. If you are close to a community project e.g. a bead-making, basket-weaving or clay pot-making project, you will be able to try your hand at these crafts. A visit to the local school may also be possible. On arrival in the area, you may also need to visit the local chief as a matter of respect and courtesy.

During your entire stay, you will not only be assimilating African culture, but you will have plenty of opportunity to ask about the aspects of culture that you are witnessing, such as the importance and etiquette associated with greetings, the use of titles of respect in an African language, the significance of body language and eye contact, an understanding of the African concept of ubuntu.

Each homestay is preceded by a debriefing with our staff who will explain what such a stay involves (including culturally, socially or politically appropriate and inappropriate behaviour), as well as give you the opportunity to meet your host and ask any questions you might have about the stay.
travelling with a local operator
This holiday is operated by a company based in the holiday destination and they will be able to provide expert local knowledge. They will be able to tailor make your holiday to suit your requirements not only concerning the dates of travel but also typically the standard of accommodation, and thus price. It is rare for local operators to be able to help with the booking of your flights.
how this holiday makes a difference
Our visits provide an authentic view of contemporary, rural, South African life by bringing visitors in touch with local people. Our hosts have either grown up or spent significant amounts of time in a rural area, hence giving them an opportunity to portray, in a realistic and balanced way, the beauty and the challenges of rural life. In a country where formal education for black people was of such inferior quality (particularly in rural areas), and is still often a barrier to self-development, it is our policy not to use this measure as a requirement for people to become tour guides. Our guides have, however, had many years of experience in hosting visitors and are trained in our own human relationship training methodology.

Our commitment with rural homestays is to creating an income-generating opportunity, not only for the host-guide, but also for his or her extended family and to the wider community. Despite South Africa’s good economic growth, rural areas still lag very far behind the more obvious urban growth, suffering from poor infrastructure, very high rates of unemployment and inadequate access to meaningful economic activity. The secondary benefit of this kind of exposure is that people, who are not formally educated and believe they do not have anything to offer the world, begin to value their own languages and lifestyles as something that other people want to know about and learn from. This, in itself, is a significant contributor to the building of self-worth, made more important by the fact that Apartheid systematically denied and eroded the value of African personhood, culture and life.

Living with families has also impacted positively on the home environments of visitors, who have once again learnt to appreciate the value of running water and electricity through their experiences in rural homes. Food is also largely bought from local, small-scale sellers, who often provide this service as the sole source of income for themselves and their families.

Above all, we are not simply a tourism enterprise. Within the context of broader peace-building work, the resources gained from these trips are used to continue our Alternatives to Violence Project (AVP) in prisons and schools. AVP is our social outreach work and since the South African government is unable to pay for this work, as are individual students and inmates, it is trips like this that makes this work possible. So, every visitor who joins a tour is making it possible for one more person to participate in an AVP workshop, thus addressing the very high levels of violence in our country. Indeed, this has a very direct and positive, rehabilitative impact on inmates who participated in AVP while in prison, but who are now released and who continue to work with us. It is often extremely difficult to reintegrate into family and community after incarceration, and we offer one way of facilitating this process; not only does the released inmate experience a supportive environment when he meets visitors to his community who want to learn from him, but a powerful affirmative message is also given to his own family who witness that our company trusts him enough to want to work with him.

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