LGBTQ+ holidays guide

It is the 21st century and same-sex marriage may have been legalised across 34 countries (and increasing with every update of this guide), but when it comes to travelling overseas, LGBTQ+ travellers can still face regressive laws, prejudiced hosts, and being criminalised simply for who they are. Laws are complex, local attitudes are difficult to gauge, and even within a country, different communities may have different stances on sexuality and gender.
In 2023, reported that over 80 percent of those surveyed consider their safety as a LGBTQ+ person when picking a destination.
A huge problem is the lack of information, including from tour companies themselves. Same-sex relationships are legal in Mexico, for example, but how can a couple be sure they won’t face discrimination there for requesting a double room? What about sharing with a host family that they’re married? And what are the attitudes in deeply religious societies?
We’ve created this travel guide as an introduction to understanding more about LGBTQ+ issues around the world. We endeavour to update this guide regularly, but do check the news, Human Rights Watch and the Human Dignity Trust for the latest information too.

Who is this guide for?

Our holidays focus overwhelmingly on wildlife, culture and activities such as hiking, cycling or kayaking, and this guide aspires to answer some of the questions that LGBTQ+ travellers may have when visiting certain countries, and to do so in an honest way. Responsible tourism benefits destinations and local communities, but it also needs to support travellers and not shy away from difficult issues.

Why are there so few LGBTQ+ holidays listed on Responsible Travel?

Our partners do not exclude people based on their orientation and we have over 5,800 holidays on our website that welcome LGBTQ+ travellers. However, at present, just a few of our trips are listed as LGBTQ+ holidays. These are itineraries designed specifically with LGBTQ+ travellers in mind. They might be tours, retreats or cruises with dedicated departure dates for those who identify as LGBTQ+ or tailor made itineraries where LGBTQ+ topics are the focus. It’s impossible for any holiday company to guarantee that their travellers will be free of harassment or discrimination, no matter where they travel or what precautions are taken; there will always be exceptions. But these trips have endeavoured to create as LGBTQ+-positive itineraries as possible.
This is an ongoing effort. We hope that in the coming months and years many more of our trips will be classed as LGBTQ+ holidays as more and more tour operators become aware of the importance of providing trips that ensure LGBTQ+ travellers can enjoy our holidays just as much – and as safely – as anyone else.
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Why do LGBTQ+ people need dedicated travel guides?

Most LGBTQ+ travellers have positive experiences on holiday, but sadly, the reality is that many countries still have laws which discriminate against LGBTQ+ people. In 2023, reported that over 80 percent of travellers surveyed consider their safety as a LGBTQ+ person when picking a destination. Same-sex relationships may be a criminal offence; marriage or partnerships may not be recognised; discrimination may be legal; even kissing, holding hands or simply identifying as LGBTQ+ may result in penalties. It is important to familiarise yourself with the laws of the country you are visiting to help you decide whether to visit, as well as to understand how open to be about your orientation or gender identity while in the destination.
In some countries, the situation is more complex than simply reading up on the legal issues. South Africa, for example, has very progressive anti-discrimination laws and was one of the first countries – and remains the only one in Africa – to legalise same-sex marriage. However, outside of the more metropolitan areas, deeply conservative attitudes prevail, and harassment and violence towards LGBTQ+ people is commonplace. LGBTQ+ travellers, then, will need to know what questions to ask their holiday companies to ensure their safety, to find out if experiences such as community homestays are feasible, and to understand how open to be about relationships and gender identity in some regions.
Sometimes, it works the other way around. In Japan, same-sex couples do not have the same legal protections as other citizens, yet this very private nation does not believe in interfering in other people’s personal business, and LGBTQ+ people will be treated no differently to anyone else.
Written by Vicki Brown
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