After a few days of exploring Barcelona on my own, I joined a small group tour – the most popular option for our solo travellers. We piled into a minivan, bagsied a seat, and headed north into the Pyrenees as the guide described what we were passing (the Camino, cherry farms and Montserrat) and what lay ahead (walking, sleepy off-season ski villages and some seriously beautiful hotels).
I was expecting the mountain hikes and spectacular scenery. I wasn’t expecting to share so much laughter and have so much fun. The camaraderie – and the fondness that went with it – was there from the get-go.
We walked through bright gold beech forests and to waterfalls so tall they disappeared out of sight, but the chats and shared sense of achievement were just as memorable. In fact, the sense of awe seemed to increase when surrounded by similarly amazed people. We feasted on
fideuà (a pasta paella), fig salads and melt-in-your-mouth mountain stews, but it’s the memory of sharing stories and laughter (and a really good bottle of monastery-made wine) that really sticks.
There are more perks to joining a small group tour as a solo: if you want your own space, you’re welcome to wander – but group meals are the norm, so you never have to worry about eating alone. Two days in, and every meeting and meal felt like rejoining a group of friends. We already knew who would be first and last to breakfast, who needed at least two cortados before starting their day, and who knew that day’s itinerary (not me).
“I think what surprises me is the number of guests that have remained in contact with other guests that they’ve made friends with on our holiday,” says Simon Woollons, who runs our top
small group tours in Spain with partner Lucy from their Pyrenean farmhouse. “I’ve found that really satisfying... And that goes back to feeling a sort of community almost from the word go.”
“When people sign up with us, we get them to fill out a questionnaire for various reasons, but one of them is, ‘What are your aims on holiday? What would you like to do on holiday?’,” adds Lucy. “Even the couples say we’re looking forward to meeting new people. They’re always open... Everyone’s coming hoping to make friends.”